The Divorce Manual

For Separating Couples and their Support Team

"All the online resources you will need for your divorce"

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Includes resources for all  stages of divorce, your divorce mediation checklist  and guides for the divorce  process 

DIY Divorce

Find out how long it takes to get a divorce in the uk 

Financial Agreements

Discover HOW TO REACH your own FAIR FINANCIAL settlement 

Create you own Parenting Plan

Use our templates to create your own parent plan

How to manage Time and Costs

agree  YOUR OWN  TIMETABLE AND REDUCE YOUR COSTS

DIY Divorce

Find out how long it takes to get a divorce in the UK

Financial Agreements

Discover HOW TO REACH your own FAIR FINANCIAL settlement 

Parenting Plans

USE OUR TEMPLATES TO CREATE YOUR OWN PARENT PLAN

Manage time and costs

agree  YOUR OWN  TIMETABLE AND REDUCE YOUR COSTS

Looking for support to start you divorce?

Speak to one of our experienced mediators for guidance on starting your divorce process and book a free consultation

Divorce and separation resources, tips, articles and videos

TOpics include: How long does a divorce take? How much does a divorce cost? What is the ground for divorce? divorce tips and family mediation costs.  

What are communication NEEDS and communication VALUES ?

What are communication NEEDS and communication VALUES ? If you’re thinking about communication in the context of mediation, negotiation, relationships, or conflict resolution, it helps to distinguish between communication needs (what people need in order to communicate effectively) and communication values (the principles that guide how we communicate). Here’s a practical framework. Communication Need /

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Online Shuttle Mediation Guide

Online Shuttle Mediation Guide- Shuttle mediation is a form of mediation where the participants do not meet face to face. Instead, the mediator moves (“shuttles”) between them by speaking to each During the initial 1on1 pre-mediation meetings (known as a MIAM – Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) the family mediator will usually assess whether shuttle

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The return of the Mesher Order

The return of the Mesher Order With many separating couples struggling to sell their former family homes they are having to come up with more and more creative solutions to meet their future housing needs. Mediation is the best place to create and explore their options together one option has become increasingly popular over the

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Financial Booklet- Income and Expenditure PART 5

Part 5- Income/Expenditure Please use the income and expenditure excel spreadsheet provided by your mediator. It is very important that you and your former Partner both use this spreadsheet to minimise confusion if and when these are referred to on the screen (Online Mediation) . Please read Chapter 8, section 5- Completing your income and

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Why are Mortgage Reports important on Divorce?

Please watch the following video. Why?- It should help to clarify why it is important to obtain a full and proper Mortgage Report BEFORE you can properly reality test your housing options on divorce, make fully informed decisions and reach fair outcomes, in your particular circumstances. Chris Lawton – Mortgage Capacity Reports – Compass Resolution

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Acknowledgements

Would like to thank our team of experts for their incredibly valuable time and expertise in contributing to and editing this Manual. You can find all their details on this page.

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